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catbells Forum Supporter


Joined: 28 Dec 2005 Posts: 4645 Location: South Yorkshire
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Posted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 8:07 pm Post subject: What is with certain teachers... |
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...i am involved with a Behaviour Support group evry lunch time for KS2 children.
The idea is that for any bad behaviour etc they are given a 'red card' and have to report to the staff involved (me everyday and a different KS2 teacher on a rota basis)
That's fine. My role as a TA is seen to the children as being just as significant as that of the teachers - i that aspect anyway!
One child came in today for not listening in class whilst the (supply) teacher was talking.
The children fill in a form giving details of what they have done, what school rule they broke and what action they should have taken. And then the child discusses their form with either me or the teacher.
sorry this is a bit long winded...
So today said child comes in and duly fills in a form. i should say at this point that another KS2 teacher was in talking to the other teacher. when i went through the form with the child and we talked about his misdemeanour i then said that in future he needed to respect ALL adults working in his classroom. And then this other teacher who wandered in said 'All visiiting teachers really'.
and i just felt so so p* off. she had totally undermined what i was saying. like she had to get the last word in. as she always does! that she's the teacher and i am a TA so what do i know.
What is it with these ppl who have to have the last word. who have to put others down.
sorry for the moan. just makes me angry. in our school there is such a hierarchy - i suppose that's all about ppl's insecurities isnt it. We should be about being a team...sadly it isnt like that.
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Jack-of-all-Trades prefect


Joined: 19 Mar 2006 Posts: 10055 Location: england
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Posted: Fri Oct 03, 2008 9:09 pm Post subject: |
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They talk the talk but can't walk the walk catbells.Know how you feel it is happening less in our school but happens neverthe lass and surprisingly it can be from the younger staff just as much.You would think that being trained when Ta's were already about would make it happen less but not from the experience of TA's in our workplace.I can sympathise. |
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bobette Teachers Pet


Joined: 08 Apr 2006 Posts: 361 Location: Up North!
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Posted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 10:25 am Post subject: |
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I worked with a teacher in my first year and the only thing she would let me do was laminate and listen to readers!! She was like this with every Ta, even the HLTA's. She said she never wanted to work with another HLTA because they just took over her classroom and she didn't like it lol!!
Okay so we haven't got the teaching qualification but most of us do alot of teaching and planning and should be given the same respect. |
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DOROTHY Forum Supporter


Joined: 26 Aug 2006 Posts: 4384 Location: I want my balls back!
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susie CPD monitor


Joined: 10 Nov 2005 Posts: 2131 Location: Wondering
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Posted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 11:30 am Post subject: |
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How rude! At our school the teachers are very big on children treating all adults the same and a few even make the effort not to call us teaching assistants but teachers instead to drive the idea home that we are as good as them. One teachr that I do PPA for tells her class that I am her when she is gone and any misbehaviour for me will be dealt with as if she had been there.
I am sorry that this point was made in front of a child, that teahcer obviously does not have a handle on the importantce of your lunchtime work!  _________________
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Jack-of-all-Trades prefect


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star-9 Top of the class


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Posted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 4:38 pm Post subject: |
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I've had that one too! |
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catbells Forum Supporter


Joined: 28 Dec 2005 Posts: 4645 Location: South Yorkshire
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Posted: Sat Oct 04, 2008 9:27 pm Post subject: |
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| Jack-of-all-Trades wrote: | Some of us have actually been referred to as helpers  |
me three!
geez! makes me SO angry. all of this. what's wrong with these ppl. The teacher in question ALWAYS has to have the last word about everything and she cannot listen.
That makes me feel better saying that - because i know that i can and other ppl tell me i can too also.
And listening is such an important and valuable skill.
Just sad and angry that she had to put me down - at all. bad enough infront of the children.
hey ho!...
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hollyw Top poster


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Posted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 10:01 am Post subject: |
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| Jack-of-all-Trades wrote: | Some of us have actually been referred to as helpers  |
Our deputy head refers to us as domestics  |
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catbells Forum Supporter


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Posted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 10:12 am Post subject: |
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| hollyw wrote: | | Jack-of-all-Trades wrote: | Some of us have actually been referred to as helpers  |
Our deputy head refers to us as domestics  |
My apologies..that wasnt very professional of me. comment deleted.
x _________________ We have nothing to fear in failure; to fail we must have been brave enough to try.
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star-9 Top of the class


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Posted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 2:13 pm Post subject: |
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domestics!?! Lovely
I know of teachers who take their ppa time at home because the TA's on their break make too much noise, and why should they have a break when teachers on duty don't get one..fair point but the TA's do duty everyday and most go straight onto lunch duty. |
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-Star- Top of the class


Joined: 04 Feb 2008 Posts: 441 Location: over the rainbow
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Posted: Sun Oct 05, 2008 4:31 pm Post subject: |
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I really really respect the teachers (usually older ones who where there before the days of TAs) who refer to me as a "Teacher." |
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catbells Forum Supporter


Joined: 28 Dec 2005 Posts: 4645 Location: South Yorkshire
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Posted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 4:30 pm Post subject: |
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Today another teacher told me i couldnt take out the 2 i normally support on a Monday because she didnt want them to miss the numeracy lesson today because she has HER observation tom... So? i thought and wanted to say out loud but didnt!
So tht tells me in no uncertain terms how much she values what i do with them.
Does she want me to help them with their spellings or not!
Makes me really cross because that's it now for their slot and i wont support them again till next Monday.
Anyway, i've made a note of her comments on my files so that my time can be accounted for and the SENCO who looks at my records will be able to see for herself.
next time she mumbles on about poor spellings...
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daisycat Top of the class


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Posted: Mon Oct 06, 2008 6:49 pm Post subject: |
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Well I've met allsorts over the years, the ones that grab you before you walk through the door, they are so pleased to have support and assistance in the classroom. The ones that role their eyes when you speak and then repeat your good ideas as their original thought. The ones that sideline you at every opportunity. The ones that only use you to take to the toilet, mop up sick etc.
My OH can't understand why I do it?
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